IT'S ALL ABOUT THE U!!!!..
There is a story I think on here, were a wife went to San Francisco with a male friend for a mini vacation. When she got back it was to a empty house. Husband and son moved out..
16 Arrives at a meeting five minutes before the agreed time.
Your giving him too soft a ride I'm afraid. The tears however sincere have softened your handling. When he needs a firm jolt that he's on thin ice to losing you. I would say you need space, a week apart, and that you only have faith in him if he makes serious strides to make right of this situation..
It's possible that a very old comment of yours was flagged. Some people have been going through old comments and cleaning things up. No worries though, everyone will be set back to 0 when the new system comes in place..
Again that won't solve your problem. If you want a serious relationship with her, talk to her. Don't confuse the issue by bringing in a third party..