Unless you set some boundaries about what she can and can't do, and whether say, dancing with another guy in public was ever discussed as acceptable or not, this isn't really something you can really hold against her, especially if you knew where she was going for Girl's Night. This kind of thing happens at dance clubs..
Please don't confuse me with Jon Stewart or Jerry Seinfeld even though we have a similar sense of humor. What's even more unbelievable is that some people think I look a bit like Jerry..
Instead take each person as a separate individual and assess them based on only their actions. It might help you get around the problem you say you know you have..
I thought I would just make an update about that guy I was going to go on a date with, but he cancelled..
I would also like an explanation on "work people out.".