Looks like you have found out this person is lying, doesn't matter how. Options usually are bury your head in the sand and ignore it or tackle him about it. Both valid in different circumstances. What is right for you ? can you live with him lying to you ?.
So far I see 3 of her pics. She is definitely desrving of her own series, IMO..
"Of Mice and Men".
I confronted him. There was disbelief > anger > denial > tears, a lot of tears. At first he said she's 'just a friend' and I wasn't accepting it. I asked him, what's the difference to you between a close friendship and the intimacy of a relationship. He said the quality time spent together. Yes, me too to an extent,but frequently fostering an emotional connection with someone else is not on IMO. He also admitted he lied about seeing her because he was afraid of a jealous reaction and did not want to hurt me. Separately he broke down, big heaving sobs and said he felt lost in his life in general...
There are so many red flags here that it is too many to count. The chances are great that if you stay in this relationship you will have your heart broken. She has a great deal of baggage and has no problem lying and cheating in her marriage and having an affair with a married man. She also has no problems with lying to you about the timelines involved. You seem to buy into all of her rationalizations for being a liar and a cheater. You need to open your eyes and see the type of person you are involved with. You are making a huge mistake..
im not looking for any form of sympathy by typing this up more of a way for my self to vent in my drunken haze..