The easiest way to mess things up is to be afraid of it. I'm a firm believer in subliminal messeges we're sending to ourselves by thinking about possible failure. You're programming yourself to mess things up if you're constantly repeating that. Destructive thoughts lead to destructive actions..
Let's talk, chat, get to know one another. I am honest, straight forward. I know, everyone says that.. but it's been brought to my attention, quite often i can be too blunt. Just be real and honest..
But it's easier for a female virgin, than a male virgin..