You must be very young..
Then that's all you have to worry about. If it doesn't work out, you live and you learn. You can't live your life by what others tell you, you'll never be happy..
Getting to know one another slowly without cohabitation seems to be better than to begin cohabitation as a way to get to know one another. Couples that start with sex on the first date or two unknowingly base their relationship on sex more than on friendship. Many relationships that start as friendships last longer..
How do you get through it? Take care of yourself the best you can. Try to eat, even if it's just small meals throughout the day. Drink a lot of water. Focus on you and your baby..
I've gotten advice from a close GF who has said some similar stuff--and that "opening the Ex-files" so to speak, is risky, and as I have learned, potentially painful territory..
If people expect to be ignorant and free..They expect what never was and will never b..
Holy crap! Yes, what everybody else said! She just made my top 10 list..