Gorgeous girl with a perfect chest.
Same girl #155732.
But instead, with a promise ring people seem to say, "We haven't made the commitment yet, but we're totally committed, and now you REALLY can't have him/her because I'm totally ABOUT to REALLY have him/her." Weird if you ask me..
So, if your girlfriend hasn't figured you out, she will eventually. If you decide to change your ways, she will tune into this change...she will sense something. If for some strange reason this isn't enough, something will crop up and haunt you like something these other posters have suggested (i.e., contracting an STD, a sudden, strange phone call from one of your flings, or any other evidence you simply forgot about or overlooked)..
I just don't get it. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year and he's not sure if he's in love with me. How can you be NOT SURE??? He broke up with me after we were together for 7 months cuz he had some personal stuff to work out plus he said he just wasn't feeling it....he wasn't in love with me...and it was SO OBVIOUS I was and that I loved him like crazy...so we had time apart...I was in a lot of pain...then a month and a half after we break up he begs for me back saying he made a big mistake and that he wants me in his life and that he was miserable every day we were apart. However, he says that he's not sure if he's in love with me yet so can I please not say "I love you" to him until he's sure he is and that's when he'll say it and I'll know? Weird request but I want him to fall in love with me so I say yeah. So, I take him back..
I do respect that you don't push women before their ready, that's admirable. I'm all for courtship, and the buildup to sex,etc. I also think that relationships don't always start in such a cookie cutter fashion, and if you wind up ****ing earlier than anticipated, then why make an issue? If you still like each other then stick around and get to know one another.Its not such a difficult thing to do. Unless you have hang ups about it..
Don't post your ex..