aaalight said it best..
im not arguing that there is never a time and a place for a paternity test. it depends on the situation of course..
The approach should look like, hey - lets build this check-list together. Isn't that healthier?? More open?? less run for the hills terrifying??.
He told me the other day, well actually he asked me if I wanted to go on my birthday this Tuesday passed. He said this" If you come with me can you please not get upset, jealous, angry, hurt, or leave. There will be drinking there and we will be "goofing" around with each other. So, if you plan on leaving I just want to tell you don't expect me to leave with you." Isn't that absolutely rude? It hurt that he would say something like that to me..
Then I went into his living room. There's an entertainment center in there...it has a lot of framed pictures of his kids (various ages). When I first met him, there was no picture of his wife with kids there. Over the past few weeks, suddenly a picture of his wife and boys was sitting toward the back of the top shelf...like someone had recently put it there. Who else would have done that? Had to be him (his ex wife no longer has a key to his place, he had the locks changed over a year ago as he was tired of her coming in and taking stuff that she wanted..plus, she's been in a serious relationship for a year and a half)..
Both have excellent IBTs, and firm tummies!.
i guess we have 2 idiots.
Yepp she just aints got the looks anymore so gotta bail out and break her heart to pieces..