anchors away. looking at the lovliness of these girls discombobulates my senses...in a nice way!.
LucreziaBorgia, you are so right as usual and EchoMemory I think you need to read what she wrote when placing value on your internet relationship. Very easy to fall for the idea of someone (that is why a lot of long distance relationships fail too). I know b/c I was there just before my bf and I got serious with someone I met on the internet and had only met in person once. So I have to keep reminding myself of how that was just something in my head and what I have in the flesh with my boyfriend is more important than anything..
It is better if you start thinking this way. If the steps I mentioned don't help you, research on the topic, and work out this way. If you push your feelings just right away, without any major psychological interference, you cannot remain happy with your current fiance. The thoughts of your ex will keep disturbing you. Besides, the harsh reality is, if you leave your fiance and go with your ex, there are higher chances that you will start having such feelings of this fiance of yours. You are currently in a dilemma, and you have to leave one of them. But you leave anyone, the thoughts of him will keep disturbing you..
Honesty is the first step back. The journey recovering a marriage.
P.S. Don't listen to the poster who said you forgot about the first rule and don't admit...that's NO way to gain an ounce of trust. Whoever said that must have been smoking the crack pipe too hard..
Beautiful Skinnies.... great pic :).
tiny cute pink tight tanktop brunette standing outside road street pavement flipflops necklace.
Yeah Gretchen Ross is about a million times cuter than this girl..
Honestly my first thought was that he lost his job. His male (strong Italian) response would be to push you away because he is ashamed..
There is the whole camp of don't rush, take things slow and see how it goes. I think that is a good way to go for anyone looking for a LTR because it allow YOU to consider whether they are right for YOU or not. But if they say they feel that its too much too soon, I suspect more than feeling just that, they are scared to get into a relationship or worse don't like you and that should be a RED FLAG for you too..
Now you either have to live with this man and accept all his faults ( and hes got plenty ) Or you need to find a way to remove yourself from this. Is this the same guy you had problems with previously ? Now HE was a doozy !.
The solution is to develop a male version of female doublespeak..