Until recently she always maintained that there was never any sexual relationships with these men. Lately I have been having a lot of doubts about her honesty regarding this issue with me and I kept putting pressure on her to tell me the truth. About three weeks ago, she relented and told me that one night with one of these friends she may have crossed the line, but she doesn't remember exactly. This was very devastating for me to hear since I always believed and forgave her. She claims she was really sorry it happened but that she did not have the courage to tell me for fear of losing me. Now, I have a lot of questions in my mind and cannot be certain that she is telling me the truth anymore about this or other matters. She did quit her job and move to a different city to be together, to show me her commitment but I worry that she will not be honest with me again. I worry that when she is out she may be with someone else and then would lie to me like she did in the past. I worry how could she lie to me so many times about specific questions and go on like there was nothing wrong with me. I am very confused on what to do because I love her and see many good things in her. I feel she is really sorry about this and she has taken steps to show commitment towards this relationship. My problem is trust, I cannot be sure she is telling me truth now. In the past I never checked her stories to verify if they were true, but on this last issue, I did, and there are some things that do not match what I was able to find out. I do not want to be in a relationship where there is no trust but I try to understand the context of what happened since going through a divorce was difficult and we were apart for the majority of the time. My love for her has clouded my judgment and I am not sure what I should do anymore. Part of me feels very guilty that she quit her job and move to another city so that we could be together, but part of me also feels that her lack of honesty in the past has put an insurmountable obstacle between us. I would appreciate perspective from anyone out there..
I do not play games. If you are even thinking of asking me for money..do not waste your time. I will not use any of my money to send to anyone. Dont waste your time..
update on above, I did try no contact for few days, then we bumped into each other and had to talk, she asked me why i was thinking so much to talk to her, that again gives me the impression that she is interested..I fail to understand, she would give me signals and then when i take the step she backs out..wtf? how am i supposed to control my emotions in this case?.
These situations are tricky because it is two people (maybe more) in a relationship you are not a part of. You being the good person sometimes does more damage to you because of hurt feelings and perceived betrayal - especially when it comes to siblings..
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Anyway, I think I need to decompress before I confront him. The sad thing is that I don't think I would have gotten mad if he had just up and made plans with me. But I'm almost glad he didn't, because now I can think about what I want out of this..
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No offense, but I do not agree with your theory in the slightest..
She is incredibly sweet. I spent a blissful night with her in ""Madina Jumeirah"" hotel. felt like with old school girl. ( young body and experience mind )..
I feel like the reason I spend so much time on LS rationalizing or justifying and excusing or trying to explain my words is that many, many times they are misinterpreted here. And that's hard to avoid in writing..
are you a people pleaser?.