The reason that most women told me about me that caught my eye is that I was one of few decent-written and "normal" emails they had gotten. Especially on a site like OKcupid, I'm sure girls get a lot of creepy emails. By just seeming normal and non-creepy alone landed me many dates with girls..
for sure an acceptable face to stare at after the fact. wouldn't you all agree?.
Another part of this not caring business--I don't care about success or lack of success any more. Vagina doesn't rule my life. If a girl wants to hook up with me, cool, and I will certainly give her an experience she won't soon forget, but if she doesn't dig me, her loss and I move on. I don't dwell. I don't stick around in the friend zone hoping for a shot. Life is too short to worry about sex and sex alone..
lefty has perfect little blossoms, just perfect..
I think it's normal personally..