dont you love cheerleaders.
Instafav. She is amazing.
So between fairness & the "entitlement" factor, it's not "crap" for a woman to want to pay her own way. Personally, if I were a guy, I'd be wondering about a woman who expected me to pay for everything all of the time..
That being said, there's a guy trying to pursue me who I have history with. He's caused me a lot of grief and heartache. Long story short, he'd make promises, sleep with me, disappear and come back saying he was sorry. Rinse, repeat. This happened multiple times over the two years we've known each other. I posted about him. The thread can be found here: Complicated situation - I need closure.
She is absolutely gorgeous..
Goddamn, look at the curves on her!.
So you've been together for 7 yrs. That's a long time. And you're apologizing for not giving her the attention she needed over the past 2 months, as you were working long hours. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think you need to apologize for being a hard worker. If you'd been neglecting her for several years, that would be a different story.......but if she's complaining that she re-evaluated your relationship all because you weren't kissing her hiney for a mere period of 2 months, all because you were working hard...well then I'd say she sounds like she has the Princess-Complex and is a very needy person who figures it's "all about her" and is something who looks for lame a reason to get out. After 7 yrs together, assuming your relationship has been a good one all those years, it doesn't sound like she's someone you want to seriously consider spending the rest of your life together with. She sounds very easily lead-astray..
It may be a function of your age. When I was 15, people treated each other with respect but I am told that respect isn't taught much in families anymore. That's just too bad. Because if the two of you had been taught respect, consideration, loyalty, honesty and decency, this all wouldn't have happened..
There are plenty of women who end up bonding with men through friendship, wanting more and never getting more..
He is speaking to this woman and tells her he loves her, every week behind the OPs back after promising the OP he would not ever speak to her again....
I went 3 years without sex. The main thing is do things that take your mind off of sex.