After getting divorced (before it was actually final) I met my old sweetheart... again. Me and her had dated on and off for 5 years and just never took it seriously I guess. We dated probably 50 some times..
I've asked for a break to clear my head. He responded by saying he "didn't believe in breaks because when he was on a break with his ex, his ex had cheated on him and it wasn't temporary...". I don't want to break up with him but this is all making me so unhappy and anxious. But deep inside me, i do think he loves me and only wants to be with me... and isn't using me as a rebound..
This. And this. I hate to thread jack, but this was always an issue I had. My ex always told me that she never thinks about the guys she was with, and only me. She only loves me and could give a sh*t about her exes. But I don't know, I guess I never accepted that. I found it hard to believe that anyone could completely negate all of the people in their past from their minds. Just didn't make sense to me. She has to think about them from time to time, right? And I guess that was the part that always killed me the most. Knowing that I will always be just another guy she's with. Another number..
Thanks for the replies. I had a friend also suggest that I start chasing after other girls and leave her behind, to see what she does. But that would be a little difficult seeing as we live together... and her moving out would really be a big deal..
Im scared that if my ex knows im with someone else she'll just think that ive moved on and she'll try and do the same.
Charlize Theron eyes!.
i love you.
But I believe in leaving others' perception of me 2 their own imaginatio..
Hi.well I am a very laid back man what I like doing is going out to plays movies,art museum,travel,fishing.etc if you want to know more just ask. Also feel free to leave text or e-mail.i have not..
If it helps, I'm a senior and she's a junior in high school, so I'm a year older than her..
Given what you posted here, he is taking things very slow. You may be right that he does not want to get too enamored with you yet as he may be expecting a disaster of some sort. Not your fault, he just has had a lot on his plate with his child and recent dissolution of his marriage that would give anyone pause when jumping back into a relationship..
I really was feeling like there was nothing happening between the guy and I and this made me feel insecure for a few days. I have been stressed so much lately that i have not been wanting to deal with the issues. Now that I have a little less stress I can handle what he has to say. A few days ago i probably would have not been in the right state of mind to cope with this..
She makes my all-star team.
Maskee's the only one who's got it right. Why's your boyfriend friends with them if they keep insulting you. I get ticked if someone says they don't like my girlfriends shirt..
I am 22. I'm really relaxed. If you want to know me just aske..
I mean, is he genually interested in me? Is there anyway I can figure out his true feelings for me without asking haha.. I want to know what's going on without bluntly asking.. I'm going to ask, just not yet..
You know what they say... A fool and his money are soon parted. Hence, why I never make money the reason to date me. Yea, I may have a nice home and such, however, are you dating me or are you dating my resources? That is the question. I keep each date low key and affordable for both..
You are making too much out of this..
ok here goes, I met this girl on a dating sight exactly a year ago. Aug 2008. We never met, but we spoke several time via phone and instant message. We were suppose to meet, but she ended up cancelling on me. We still spoke a few times after that and then completelty lost touch. We both agreed that we had a lot in common. 5 months go by. No communication with her. Out of the blue, she IM's me. I was shocked. We started talking full force again, then ended up going out for drinks.After that, we spoke like everyy other night on the phone and she would text me just saying hi. She had alot of family issues and would call me late at night to talk to me about them. This made me feel close to her. Then all of a sudden, she becomes a little flaky. Didnt return my text messages and phone call. Like 2 days go by and I finally ask her whats the deal. She tells me that its the worst time in her life and cant committ herself to a guy at the moment. She said between her family issues and wanting to go to law school, she doesnt feel she has the time like she thought she did. A couple of weeks go by without communication. I hit her up and we start talking casually. She ends up coming to a bar mitsvah as my date and even to a family party with me and meets my whole family. She tells me she loves my family and that she feels our families would get along great. She still tells me shes not ready for a relationship but insinuates that theres a good chance we will be together when the time is right. Whats the deal????.
oh damn, very sexy.