I don't know enough about him yet to determine long-term compatibility. What impresses me though is he is very interested in what makes me happy. And it's not stuff like buying me presents or taking me out to dinner. He listens and supports me with my career ambitions. If I'm stressed, he wants to calm me down..
He is and wants to be the dominant person. He admired me because I am a strong, smart woman, with ambition and a mind of my own, but I remember whenever we would fight, he'd say, "Ugh, it's because we're too much alike," which I took to mean, that I wasn't a pushover..
Whatever her reasons, if she wanted to talk to you, she'd call you. If I were you, I'd move on..